Our first time having dinner with the women at the Joshua Center was good. The guests seemed to like the soup and bread bowls - and especially the cupcakes. (But who doesn't love Rachel's cupcakes?) There were eight of us volunteering - all women. Correction: all really great women! ;)
But this was a very different experience from serving at the men's facility. Not better. Not worse. But different. Not the same energy. And not as much energy.
This is the information that Breakthrough's website offers regarding the services they offer for women:
Breakthrough’s Women’s Services Program provides support for women in crisis. Programming focuses on both emergency and long-term needs and is designed to help women break the cycle of homelessness, abandonment, addictions, domestic violence and abuse.
The struggles that homeless women face are somewhat different than the struggles of their male counterparts. Most of that is based on their gender and the violence they can be and are subject to based only on their stereotypical gender weaknesses. Because of these struggles and experiences most - if not all - of these women have been deeply emotionally hurt as well.
(For stats and more information check out http://new.vawnet.org/category/Main_Doc.php?docid=558)Similar to serving our brothers at Breakthrough, our challenge as ambassadors of restoration and reconciliation (2Corinthians 5:11-21) involves making ourselves available emotionally to these women and obliterating in our minds any differences that may be between us. To reach out to these women with consistent caring and an honest attempt to restore wholeness. Perhaps eventually.
Understanding the extreme hurt and loss these women have experienced, there are many ways that we can make this honest attempt to restore wholeness. Our own dear Hannah suggests:
"I think it would be healing to see some men who interact in a loving way with women, whether married to them, dating them or just single guys interacting with their sisters. And us women, in turn, showing healthy interaction with men."
My prayer for these women is that they can find healing for the traumas they have been through and my prayer for our volunteers is that we can meet the needs of the women at Breakthrough in small and big ways.
2 Corinthians 5:18 (Amplified Bible) "But all things are from God, Who through Jesus Christ reconciled us to Himself [received us into favor, brought us into harmony with Himself] and gave to us the ministry of reconciliation [that by word and deed we might
aim to bring others into harmony with Him].